Being a mother has taught me so much about unconditional love, how to trust my gut, how to be selfless, having profound patience, being present, and how to carry loads that seemed impossible, especially as a single mother. In this moment I find myself learning something different. I’m learning a new lesson, it’s quiete r and harder to grasp, which is, how to let go of the tether I created between me and my child. A tether I created based on what I need in a parent as a child,